Do you know who your “tribe” is?

 

They are the people who really need what you have to offer. The problems that consume their days and steal their sleep are exactly what you solve. You have the expertise they need.

 

Defining your tribe goes far beyond age/gender/location. You need to know where they spend time, both online and offline. You need to know what they struggle with and what holds them back from asking for help.

 

Most of all, you need to know how to authentically connect with your tribe.

 

Find Your Tribe

Knowing who the people are that you can best serve is the first step. Another term for this is defining your niche.

 

Many business owners are afraid to claim a niche. They feel that by focusing on serving everyone, they will get more business.

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Unfortunately, it’s not true. You can’t be available to everyone and still make a difference in the world. You have to find who it is you do your best work with and focus only on that group.

 

Key thought: When you include everyone, you attract no one.

 

Let me give you an example. Let’s pretend there’s a woman named Barbara Feinstein. She’s 40, with two teenagers at home. She’s a practicing Jew. Her biggest struggle is that she doesn’t know what she’s going to do when her kids leave home. She’s built her life around being a mom.

 

Which invitation is going to work best to reach her?

  • Looking for purpose? I can help. Contact me today!
  • Are you ready for an empty nest? Contact me for information on finding purpose after your kids leave home.

 

Obviously, it’s the second one! The second headline shows that you understand her exact pain point and are offering to help. The first invitation is too broad and doesn’t tell her what you actually do.

 

Now, the second invitation also excludes certain people. People who are young. People who don’t have kids. People who have a long list of post-kid activities ready to go.

 

But that’s OK!

 

In order to be relevant to specific people, you have to be irrelevant to others. That’s the only way you’ll be able to work with the people you love most and do your best work for them. You have to exclude some people to truly serve others.

 

Connect Authentically

Once you’ve defined who you can best serve, you have to reach out to them in a way that’s authentic and draws them in. There are several important steps to this.

 

Step 1: Talk About Them, Not You

I hate to break it to you, but people aren’t nearly as interested in you as you think. They’re primarily interested in what’s in it for them.

 

Therefore, when communicating online or in person, focus on your prospect. Talk about what pain they have. Listen to what they have to say. Talk about solutions you offer that matter to them.

 

Too many websites are all about “Here’s my education, here’s my awards, here’s my testimonials. I’m so cool, hire me!”

 

That doesn’t work. Effective marketing says, “Here’s what you’re struggling with, here’s what keeps you up at night. Here’s a solution you need. Contact me to get it.”

 

Step 2: Use the Customer’s Language

Being well educated in your field is great, but it can be a hindrance when you’re creating marketing. Specialists tend to “talk shop” instead of using the customer’s language.

 

Which makes sense to you?

  • “It’s really important to optimize your portfolio to minimize risk and maximize return. A mixture of mutual funds, short term T-bills, and government bonds would be a great mix for you at your age.”
  • “We want to make sure your retirement account builds value but also doesn’t lose money before you retire. I think a mix of fairly safe, high-quality investments is best for you at this time.”

 

Unless you know finance, the first paragraph probably means little to you. On the other hand, the second paragraph uses language you’re familiar with.

 

Sometimes we’re tempted to “sound smart” by using technical language. It’s a big no-no. If you want to really connect with your customer talk about their problems the way they do.

 

Step 3: Be the Real You

Finally, be yourself. Too many business owners feel the need to put on a mask and pretend to be someone they’re not. It never works.

 

Pretending to be extremely tight and professional when you’re truly silly and fun doesn’t serve anyone. Instead, bring your true personality into your work. Being authentic not only helps you feel more comfortable in your business, it helps your customers feel more comfortable around you.

 

People can tell when others are being fake. No one wants to work with a fake. By bringing your true personality and perspective into your business and marketing, you’ll be able to serve those who will work best with you.

 

Connect Authentically with Your Tribe

When you’ve defined who your tribe is and reached out to them authentically, you’ll find your business growing more quickly than you expected.

 

By identifying your niche and communicating in ways that make sense to them, you’ll be light years ahead of most of your competitors.

 

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Personal Branding: Its Essential

Answer quickly: What does Gary V have that you probably don’t have?

 

Nope. It’s not hustle, a ridiculous work ethic, or a million dollars.

 

It’s a personal brand.

 

What does Gary V sell? He sells himself, and he does it very, very well.

 

I mean, it’s as simple as the fact that I can say “Gary V” and you instantly know what I mean. So why does it work – and more importantly, how can you create one too?

 

Why a Personal Brand Works

People do business with those they know, like, and trust. A personal brand helps people feel that they know more about who you really are, which helps them develop the “know, like, and trust” factor.

 

When you develop a personal brand, you don’t focus your messaging on what you sell, you focus your messaging on who you are and why you’re driven to serve others. This helps tie into another key marketing principle – people love to shop but they hate to be sold.

 

If you’re focusing on portraying who you are and why you’re serving your audience, you avoid the feeling of “selling” while you are, in fact, boosting the credibility of your products and services.

 

Finally, people buy based on emotions and justify their decisions with logic later. By building an effective personal brand, you’re building a bank of positive emotions with your targeted tribe. When they see that you have a product or service for sale, they’ll be more likely to buy from you.

 

How to Build an Effective Personal Brand

I want to get one misconception out of the way right away – an effective personal brand does not have to mean that everyone likes you and you offend no one. In fact, you may turn off a large group of people.

 

What matters is that you connect deeply with your target customers. You want to build a loyal group of followers – a tribe – and that means you have to take a narrow focus that appeals especially to them.

 

Let’s look at Gary V again. He’s got an incredibly passionate tribe who hangs on his every word. People who want to hustle at the level that Gary does. People will sacrifice everything in order to succeed. To them, Gary is a hero.

 

And then there are detractors. Have you ever had someone write in Inc magazine that your theories could destroy others’ businesses? Gary V just shakes it off. He’s not for them, he is for his own tribe.

 

Some other methods that will help you build your personal brand:

  • Have a Clear Message. Know what you’re portraying and to whom. Gary V started with a message based on a single word: Hustle. Your message should have that same focus and clarity.
  • Be Consistent. As someone building a personal brand, you have to keep your public persona consistent. Share the same message and focus on LinkedIn as you do on Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, and other social media platforms.
  • Be Unforgettable. One benefit to being controversial is that people remember you. Love you or hate you, they remember. As someone building a personal brand, you can’t afford to be bland or sound like everyone else.
  • Focus on Exposure. In order to build your personal brand, you have to be visible. Be active on the same social media outlets your customers frequent. Create content – videos, and writing – that gets shared.
  • Be You. You won’t be successful if you try to be another Gary V or another famous personality. Those folks are taken. Be you, connect with your tribe, and watch your brand grow.

 

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Your Community is Vital to Your Success

 

Being well-connected to your community is vital to your business’ success. And I’m not just talking about your community of customers and followers – I’m talking about the actual city or town that you live in.

 

In business, it’s not just what you know but who you know. A good friend of mine has invested herself in building a brand behind her name. She has become quite a bit of a digital nomad, however, if you walk into our town everyone knows of her. If they don’t physically know her they can at least recognize her from her presence in the community and social media.

 

Her visibility in the community gains her the social proof to be seen as an authority. People go to her first because they see her and associate her with success for their programs and events. Her name has become synonymous with connectedness.

 

Being known and having her reputation enter the room before she does lowers people’s concern about working with her, it also builds know, like, and trust factors! This is how you draw people to what you are doing authentically and without having to be salesy.

 

Interested in seeing the same results yourself? Here’s how you can build relationships in your community.

 

How to Build Relationships in Your Community

Engaging with your community isn’t just about building your brand and reputation, although it will do that. It’s about having an authentic focus on being involved and caring about the people in your city or town.

 

Be a Partner or a Sponsor

A great way to build community relations is by being a partner or a sponsor in an academic or charity setting.

 

What ways can your business connect with a local school or university to hold events or offer internships? Can your company offer scholarships as part of a community-wide contest? What other organizations can you partner with?

 

You can also look for charity events to sponsor or partner with. If your company has a focus on helping children, for instance, a fun run related to schooling or children’s health would be a great sponsorship.

 

Fun and Games

Consider having your organization put up a team for a local softball, basketball, or bowling league. Or, look for volleyball leagues, billiards leagues, or beanbag tournaments. Not only will your employees enjoy bonding outside of work, but your business will be a participant in community events.

 

Whether your company’s team wins or loses is far less important than the fact that your company is involved in the community in a playful, fun way. You don’t always have to be selling or building your brand – sometimes it pays to just relax!

 

Volunteering

Encouraging individual employees to volunteer in their spare time is great, but why not take the next step and bring together a group from your company to give back to your city? You can even allow people to volunteer for part of their paid hours each month.

 

There are a ton of different ways to volunteer as a group, including Habitat for Humanity, helping at food banks, cleaning up the sides of the road, and more. Get creative and make a difference!

 

Why Your Community Matters to Your Business

Your company doesn’t exist in a vacuum. Being connected to your community has been a fundamental part of the health of a business for decades.

 

Being well-connected to your community not only builds goodwill and brings in customers, it helps you attract the top talent from your area. Your company will be a desirable place to work, and you’ll be able to retain your best workers more easily.

 

Community connections also help you win major business accounts. Why not be the supplier of choice for the industries in your area? Why not show your commitment to relationships and social responsibility, and reap the rewards of being a good neighbor?

 

When you take the time and energy to build real, long-term, valuable relationships within your community, you’ll strengthen more than your market position. You’ll also build morale among your staff, become a desirable place to work and reap the intangible rewards of giving back in ways that matter.

 

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